【聽清真相】Hear The Truth Out (English writing below)
一對耳朵,一個長在左,一個長在右,提醒著我們聽事情,要聽兩面。
我的工作,包括耐心地聆聽客人的心事,再給予我專業的解決方案。
客人當中,不少是有婚姻問題的。在我面前,有些客人自自然然就會說出伴侶如何不好,很少會說自己怎樣不足。往往當我把夫妻的八字都排出來時,會發現客人本身的問題也不少。接觸之下,更會發現那客人的禮貌差強人意。
想想,對貴人的禮貌都那麽差,有可能對自己看不順眼的伴侶相見如賓嗎?難道沒人告訴過她他千萬不要冒犯風水命理師嗎? 😂
夫妻之間的緣份,很奇妙。遇到對的人,缺點會變成對方眼中的優點。遇到錯的人,個人優點反而是夫妻之間的導火線。
風水命理固然能幫得上忙,但是,不老實地檢討自身的缺失或錯誤的選擇,把自己的責任都推在「風水不好」的身上,能夠騙自己多久?
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Our pair of ears, one on the right, one on the left, are to remind us to always listen to both sides of an issue.
My work involves listening to the troubles of my client, and then providing them with my professional solutions.
Among my clients, a number of them have marital problems. In front of me, some clients will naturally tell me the "bad" side of their spouse, and not the negative side of themselves. Upon more contact, I can tell that the client him/herself have very poor courtesy to begin with.
Think about this, if a client treats his/her benefactor with poor manners, how could the client treat his/her spouse respectfully? Didn't anyone inform the client never to offend a Chinese Metaphysics practitioner? 😂
The affinity between a husband and wife is very interesting. When you meet the right person, your shortcoming can be your strength in the marriage. But when you meet the wrong person, what has always been your strong point now becomes the subject of marital conflicts.
While Feng Shui and Bazi can certainly help with a struggling marriage, to just push the blame onto "bad Feng Shui", without taking a honest look at your own flaws or admitting that you made a poor decision, how long can you continue to deceive yourself?